I woke up the following morning and lost my nerve. Removed the link, and promptly went to work. I checked my email whilst getting set up for the day, and got a lovely surprise from a dear friend. It helped immensely.
A lot of people know here already, friends, and some had an inkling beforehand. I’m not sure what I was so concerned about, so far people have been supportive, and if they are not well, it would be upsetting, i’d be lying if I didn’t think it would feel like that.
So I got home and put the link back in, and i’m okay with that, in a way I didn’t think I could be.